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We all have a different view of what "bad" really is. But anything to do with crime, violence, and substance use qualify. And of course, street gang affiliation is a different situation. (see gangs). So, what if someone dresses in a way you don't approve of, or has bad grades, or uses profanity? H

Spare the rod, Spoil the child! This saying means that if you're too easy on your kids they will get spoiled. (The rod means something you hit them with.) OK, even if you don't beat your kid with a rod, the concept of punishment is important. By definition, Punishment means to impose something u

This picture isn't a joke...They really do it! So, it's up to US to make sure that they can't get hurt. Although every home is different, and it's tough to predict every possible danger they might get into, there is a common checklist. Deny acces to: • Electrical Outlets (Cover with plugs) •

When I was a kid, I used to take the waitresses' tips off of the table at restraints. I want money...I see money...I take money... That's it. I had no idea that it was wrong, or that I was hurting anyone. Later on, I took money from my Grandfather's wallet. This time I knew it was bad because I ha

Do you want your kids to be "tough", or do you want them to be "sensitive"? Do you want them crying when they fall down, or do you want them to get up walk it off? Do want them getting their feelings hurt because someone doesn't like them, or do you want them to shrug it off and say, "Oh well, it

The bottom line is that all school bullying is the fault of the school...Period. There should NEVER be a moment when your kid is not within eyesight of an adult. No, you can't have teachers in the bathroom, but some form of personnel can and should be stationed at the door. Whether in the hallways

NO! - Well at least not regularly. Although there are times when a child may need added security for a night (thunderstorm, nightmare) ideally children should have their own room. Newborns should NEVER sleep with you! This is simply because there are all to many tragic cases of newborns being accid

expect some but yes its bad because avoiding reality through chemical means conditioned to enhancement means you cant enjoy things without it

The good news is that most kids don't watch "TV" anymore...The bad news is, its replacement can be even more problematic! The TV was called the "Boob Tube" back in the day for a reason. It's not new to say that it's addictive, it brainwashes you, and replaces more constructive activities. That disc

Facebook, Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube, Twitter...they all have the same issues. Online presence has taken on a profound significance in kid's lives." Don't underestimate or downplay how big of a social "gathering place" it is. Right or wrong, it's here to stay, and will only get even bigger as it c

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There are many dynamics that come into play with step-children. Although each situation is different, there are some common issues that are likely to present themselves. "He's my kid not yours!" Some people do not feel the same responsibility or authority with their partner's children as t

FACT: Masks do generally reduce the spread of certain diseases. But if you think your kid's mask is protecting them, you're probably wrong! FACT: Most people are using old style surgical masks. These masks are NOT designed to protect wearers from infection, but rather, protect others from catch

Did you ever see them fight over a seat? OMG just pick a different seat who gives a crap! Well, it's not about the actual seat - It's about rights. Sure, finding another seat will solve the seating issue, but the kid's rights are still violated. That's why finding another seat doesn't solve the

boys fight too, but girls do more even more competitive evolutionary reasons boys band together to hunt and war girls compete to be the most desirable from the pool hormones more emotional forced together in school nesting

It's very common to say things like: "I'll give you a treat if you do your homework!" "But that's not right, Im not using bribery! Yes, this definitely sounds like bribery, but technically it's not. Here is the difference. Giving someone a reward for helping YOU, is bribery...Giving someone a rew

Up to 12 million school-aged children get head lice in the US each year. However, anyone can get head lice, not just kids. Although Head Lice don't cause serious illness, carry disease, or even hurt, they feed on small amounts of blood from the scalp. Execssive head Itching is the most noticable s

It's essential to help kids develop a sense of autonmony and independance. Their rights are limited enough, and providing them some level of control goes long way. That being said, we as parents are responsible to know what is going on in their lives. "Can I check their phone?" Hell yes...just

There is no question that immunizations save lives, and the reason to have them is obvious and clear. The only reason for one to be hesitant about vaccines is the concern over possible side effects. So the real question is, "Are they safe?" How they work: Generally speaking, vaccines work by int

I'll be honest - I like "mean" teachers! Although I hated them at the time, I now see the benefit. This doesn't include abuse, which there is 0 tolerance for, but some teachers are just "over- the-top" strict, which can be just fine. • Setting the bar high on being orderly will exercise areas whe

The body's natural tempature is 98.6 degees. A fever is generally a temapture over 99.5 degrees orally. (Or a rectal temperature over 100.3 degrees.) What is the purpose of fever? The increase in the body's tempature helps the speed and efficency of virus fighting cells and antibodies. Most fevers

Toxins are just about everywhere and are in just about everything. "If it was that bad then wouldn't everyone be sick!" Records show that kids are continuing to be sicker than previuos generations. • Children’s bodies are in development which makes them less able to detoxify and expell poll

3 year olds begin to ask, "Where do babies come from?" and "How come girls don't have a penis?" Preschool children should learn about male and female body parts. "Should I keep it scientific or can I make up cute names? (Pee Pee, Doolie)" These parts are private, but its ok for parents and th

A common concern with video games is the violence. (This is the same question as violence on TV) So - Are violent video games bad for kids? Well, what do you mean by "bad?" Do they increase violent behavior in children? Do they desensitize them to violence? Do they normalize shooting and killing

You don't need me to tell you that your kid is addicted to their phone. In fact, the ones who aren't are actually outliers. And the addiction has spread to adults as well, but it's an even bigger issue with kids because they have been raised on their phones, and don't know a life without it. The

16, if I had to pick a number. But of course, it's not cut and dry. Some kids mature at different ages. And what exactly defines "dating"? For the purposes of this discussion, dating is defined as a 1 on 1 activity that both parties consider a date. For most parents the main concern is the level

maybe it depends on the level of functionality there is no exact point but in clear cases, sib time patience methods

There is no way that I'm publicly going to say that it's OK to hit your kids! And you are not going to find any publication advising or even defending it. But there is a such thing as a "Physical Correction." However there are strict guidelines to physical correction. • Must be measured, and

Rewarding good behavior is much better than punishing bad behavior. Not because is nice...it just works better. That being said, the "Time Out" is going to be required. But there are some useful guidelines. "What ages are for time out?" Generally speaking - Between two and seven. Conveniently, the